Tag: pain
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This Time Last Year.
Recalling 1 August 2023 It was this very day last year that my dads last breath on earth would be his first breath in heaven. He slipped away peacefully, while on a call with his children.I still remember mum’s words echoing loud and clear, “Guys dad is going,” and I’m questioning, “going where?” Mum turns…
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Self Forgiveness
Self-forgiveness is a universal struggle, one that many of us grapple with in our lives. If you find yourself in this struggle, know that you are not alone. I asked myself why one finds it hard to forgive oneself. Those moments are embedded in our memories—where a single decision reshaped our lives for the worse.…
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A Journey from Pain to Scars
Yesterday, as I sliced onions in the kitchen, my daughter noticed an old burn on my hand. In her innocent voice, she comforted me, saying, “Mummy, don’t worry. Your burn will get better. You will be alright.” I smiled at her and said, ” Oh my babes, that happened long ago. I have the scar,…
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Family Hurt – Part 4 – Someone To Talk To.
In my previous post, we discussed the importance of dealing with pain instead of projecting it onto others. Today, let’s dive deeper into why finding someone to talk to can be a game-changer in your healing journey. The Truth About Opening Up: Opening up is challenging; it may feel daunting, especially if you find it…
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Family Hurt – Part 3- Process Pain; don’t Project it.
A few days back, I wrote about the importance of dealing with our pain. It is crucial to understand that we all handle it differently, in our unique ways and timeframes. So, don’t lose your patience, whether it’s with yourself or someone else, just because the healing process doesn’t happen as fast as others might…
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Family Hurt – PART 2: Processing Past Pain
Lately, losing my father has added a profound layer to how I view life. I’ve been deep soul-searching, trying to make sense of it all. I’ve looked closer at myself and the people around me during this journey. I’ve been conscious not to take things personally, especially as I navigate the rough terrain of grief.…
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My grief journey – 1 Month Later
1 September 2023 Today is exactly one month since my dad passed away. The last few days have been a struggle for me emotionally… I simply miss my dad. I have been battling with a few decisions. I want to take a break from certain things, but I keep hearing my dad’s voice and what…
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