Authentically Adele

In a world filled with constant comparisons, losing sight of one’s path and purpose is easy. We often find ourselves surrounded by others showcasing their achievements and how far they’ve come, leaving us questioning our own progress. We compare ourselves to our peers and sometimes even to our past selves. 

The tendency to compare can either make or break us. And it’s lovely when it produces positive results for us, but what happens when it does not? So why take that risk? Although not always, comparisons can often be toxic, leading to self-doubt, discouragement, and so much more. Comparing ourselves to others or our younger selves can leave us with many questions like, where did I go wrong? Could I have done things any better that may have altered my life course? And our answer is always usually yes, which further depresses us because we then blame ourselves for not being where we think we are meant to be. 

Letting Go of Comparisons: 

It’s crucial to remember that comparing yourself to others or who you are now to who you once were is unfair to yourself. Each of us is on a unique journey with different timelines and circumstances. By comparing, we overlook the growth, experiences, and lessons that have shaped us into who we are today. And let’s face it, you have come a long way, been through so much and are still standing today! Take a moment to breathe and smile, knowing that not many could smile right now after going through what you have been through. 

Rather than lamenting missed opportunities or regretting past choices, it’s time to rise up and take action. Break free from the shackles of comparison and embrace the truth that you are exactly where you’re meant to be.

Influence, Not Control: 

The person you were yesterday may have influenced who you are today, but it doesn’t define or control you. Your past can only have power over you if you allow it to. Instead of dwelling on what could have been or where you think you should be, focus on the present and the actions you can take today. You are where you’re meant to be; every step you take now will shape your future.

Embracing Your Potential: 

Your life is a blessing, and believe it or not, God has kept you alive for a reason. What do you envision for your future? Remember, it’s never too early or too late to start preparing the ground and sowing seeds for a harvest you wish to gather. Embrace the opportunity to plant your own seeds today to reap the bountiful harvest tomorrow. Our Heavenly Father has given us the ability and power to be the reason our lives bear fruit and He will bring the increase.

Remember, you are exactly where you’re meant to be, and your experiences, choices, and growth have led you here. Focus on the present, take intentional action, and cultivate your own path. Embrace the blessings and potential within you, and let your life be a testament to the unique contributions only you can make. Your future, family, and community await the harvest of what you’re ready to sow today.